supercute/superqueer

2012-05-15 40 notes

limpwristedgenderfuckboy:

agooduniverse:

Pink ombre swirl cake (x)

*gasp* This looks so pretty and yummy. Mmm.

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2012-04-07 2,421 notes

kelseabear:

Lily Liqueur’s tribute to Sally Rand

(via heyfatchick)

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2012-04-06 416 notes

fckkeveryone-suckit:

tslillykat:

Sexy Goddess, Danni Daniels.

this is my idol! fuck bailey! >;D

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ok i’ll keep Bailey & you can have this big lady with her MONSTER cock

(via ambidextrously-erotic)

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2012-04-05 59 notes

chubbychaserforever:

wrap me up in those thighs

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rileyxxx:

submitted by:testosterone-boi

TW: self-harm, scars

My name is Elijah Jarlem, I usually go by EJ or E.

22 yr old pre-everything Trans Guy trying to become comfortable in his own skin.

Scars on my chest are from an addiction to self harm that I’m trying very hard to overcome.

(via plainlaine)

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2012-04-04 127 notes

bigclitslittletits:

Mandy Mitchell

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its not that i want to have sex with them
i want them to want to have sex with me
i thought
i don’t feel sexy
i need
someone to make me feel sexy
and i guess that’s what i’m doing
and i’m just not letting it hit me

shitty

ugh but i don’t understand
why do i feel bad about it
when the one that matters
god damn
its not like i’m saying no to sex
i’m not leading anyone on
stop this guilt train
god damn.

i don’t understand
does acting like you’re sexy
and acceptning that you’re sexy
make you sexy
or does
fake it
til you make it
not work in this case?
is it like sports?

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ilikeprettyclothes:

gutsandinsides:

jaxson2011:

Sexy IS still possible when you are fully clothed. FACT.

I want this womans style!

There can never be too much Elsa.

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2012-04-02 189 notes

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2012-04-01 482 notes

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Body positivity from a positive space.

tumblr is changing the way i think about my body (well, it’s changing they way I think other people can think about my body). there are a lot of body positive blogs there. I think that I am typically a lot more confident about my body / a lot more able to accept that people find it attractive despite being big / “flawed”, and I know a lot of what makes me additionally attractive is confidence.

Or I like thinking that a personality trait is more attractive than a body type and can overcome what people who can’t recognize it say/think. Like, okay, it’s fair to not want sexuality rubbed in your face at all times but I find it really difficult to find the little underworld of people in Toronto that talk openly about being able to power through body negativity. Or I guess it’s a dream world on the internet and it was easier to be in that headspace in St John’s because the place was a lot smaller because it was a lot easier to feel recognized as an individual.

I typically feel really awful about the way I look in Toronto and I never really had that problem in St John’s.

So tumblr has a huge community of big girls who post sexy photos and I think it’s really great. It makes me feel a million times better about myself than any bbw porn / body acceptance campaigns ever ever ever has, because I think they’re hot and tasteful and they turn me on (so it must turn other people on too!). I know the positive response I feel in myself when I take sexy photos and look at them is way more validating than any positive response I get from anyone else, and it’s nice to see there are other women like me who feel that way. But now, because I feel so differently about myself in Toronto, it’s harder to feel and act confident and even recognize that other people might be attracted to me. Sometimes I can’t even recognize that people want to be my friend and that they think I’m cool / am not a wildly miserable disaster.

I took some revealing photos. Like, gnarly black and white side fat back roll stretch mark bra and legging photos. And I said, yes, I like these. And I put them online. And now I’m getting responses and I don’t know how to react. I don’t know what I expected. Okay, okay. I put them on OKcupid, which is not typically a place where women put that kind of photo. But I really don’t know how to deal with the messages I’m getting. They’re totally normal messages! They’re like, lets play scrabble! But I’m like, oh no, I don’t want to play scrabble with you. You might want to have sex with me!

I don’t know how to get out of feeling that way. I wish I didn’t have to feel like revealing pictures that I wanted to use as “hey, people don’t think big girls are sexy, lets show them that you’re sexy” and maybe a little “be the change you want to see in the world” and a little “fake it til you make it” didn’t have to be poisoned with feelings of being sexy means being easy, or that there should even be negative connotations around that. But I also feel like the venue that I chose was the wrong venue and context matters. I guess I don’t the judgment of tumblr to fill my needs (or the internet or real life apparently).

And then it’s like, hey, why do you need to feel like a sexy person? There’s a part of me that says that seriously but there’s a more grounded part of me that knows I feel that thinking is on the same level as my mother telling me I shouldn’t be friends with arab men.

I just don’t know how to get out of this cycle and feel balanced about sexuality and self confidence. Other things I have been trying to do have shown me that sometimes you need to do more than to fake it - I have been trying to get into roller derby and it is really hard because I am so out shape. And even being a bit garbage at drawing and things related to school. Okay, I get it, practice. But how do you translate that to feeling like a respectably sexual person? (Does it translate?)

If I were a murking person I would say I would murk this in the future, but I’m not. I’m definitely not looking for ego stroking. But it’s a really hard series of thought to deal when when you’re trying make healthy physical choices while also having healthy body image without needing the physical choices to come from a negative place. How I feel about being a sexual being really ties into how I feel about all of the rest of my life, and I think it’s healthier to accept that as a truth than to challenge it.

But uggggggh. Am I angsting, or am I talking about my feelings?